Confidence + GED® = College! Nissan_Visit_and_Hannah_Photos_005_web.jpg

During my 8th grade year at a local parochial school, my parents were on the verge of a divorce and the school gave me a scholarship to complete the year.  That summer my parents divorced and my Mom lost her job.   I was accepted to a parochial high school with a partial scholarship but they would not let me start until the second semester. 

Mom and I were homeless that summer, we slept in our car in the Kmart parking lot. Sometimes we could find change but often we did not have food. Mom found a job, we moved into an apartment and I started high school in January with a partial scholarship. I did fine academically but that was not enough to get the scholarship renewed for the next year. My mother lost her job again. 

 
Now it is clear that I should have gone to public school when I could not go back to parochial school, but we were scared and confused, my mother was also depressed. The high school I had attended would not release my transcript because we owed them money, so transferring to a public school would not be easy, I just did not know what to do. 
 
My mother found another job, we lived in apartments but often without any electricity. Eventually I was 18 and so scared.  I only had one semester of high school credits, and no transcript. All my friends were graduating and preparing for college, which is what I wanted to do. I started checking on getting a GED but I was concerned about the stigma associated with a GED.  I began to realize that a lot of people go to college after obtaining a GED. I found out about the YWCA GED Preparation Services in the phone book. I had never been to a YWCA program but I had a good feeling about the organization. 
 
I had no idea how nice the YWCA staff could be. They became my support system.  They said things like “this is a good thing, you should be proud of yourself” and I actually started to believe in myself.  I did really well on the GED practice test at the YWCA. One of the teachers reviewed my scores with me and told me I was ready to take the GED test. Wow!  The test takes an entire day.  It took a month to get the scores but with my new found confidence, I took the ACT, the SAT and applied to colleges while I waited for the GED test results. 

In the space of a few weeks, I found out that I passed the GED AND was admitted to Mary Baldwin College in Virginia.  Mary Baldwin offered me a large scholarship, but it was not enough.  I looked everywhere for scholarships, including the Kaws Indian Tribe.  My great grandfather was a chief of the Kaws in Oklahoma.  I will be at Mary Baldwin in the fall.
 
Thanks to the YWCA for helping me find confidence.  There is no stopping me now!